
Grace is a proud member of the Pitt 2025 class. She majored in Rehab Science with a concentration in Athletic Training. She grew up in a military family, so she can say she is from “everywhere,” although she counts Florida as home since she moved to Pittsburgh for school from there.
Her military upbringing gave a lot of variety in her faith experience. She was raised in the church but not any specific denomination because of moving around so much. “When I came to Pitt, I wanted to stay active in the church. It was a large part of my life growing up and I wanted to continue to strengthen my faith throughout my time at Pitt,” she said.
Her freshman year at Pitt posed some challenges to getting involved, due to the pandemic. Zoom meetings were not the most conducive to getting involved with a faith group. She did find a group though. “I fell in with them pretty quickly. I like how they ran things. One of their big things was ‘Doing life’ with each other, having a good community. I got pretty involved with them. Their bible studies, the welcome team. I had some very good friends with them.”
Grace started to notice things that seemed problematic however. “There was a lot of shame involved in the church. I felt like I had to hide myself, or certain parts of myself, like my long-distance boyfriend since they were adamantly against dating in college.” Grace also heard messages that said if she disagreed with that church’s teachings, she was disagreeing and straying from God. “The final nail in the coffin was when I didn’t go to a retreat they wanted me to go to. I couldn’t go due to an event that same weekend with a club where I was an officer. The next week I heard the pastor talk about covenants with God and use my situation explicitly to admonish me. My heart sunk. I felt betrayed.”
“My mom helped me fully step away from that group even though my life was so entwined there.” After she left, she felt lost without a church and was tempted to just not go. But she knew another friend, Sarah, a member of the campus ministry and brought Grace to Ash Wednesday service. “I came to a few things at the Lutheran Campus Ministry and then couldn’t go for a while. When I finally did return, I was worried that I would be shamed for missing so much. And then when I walked in the campus pastor called out my name, ‘Grace!’ He was really happy to see me. There was no shame.”
Grace has been coming ever since and feels a great connection to the community. “I don’t feel embarrassed. I don’t feel like I have to hide parts of myself here. I can show all of myself and it is ok. It has been healing. This group has been one of the best representations of Christ’s love. We are always welcomed with open arms and shown so much love.” Thanks to the Lutheran Campus Ministry in Greater Pittsburgh, Grace continued on in her faith development when she could have just as easily walked away. The Lutheran Campus Ministry provides a wonderful community that allows the people here to bear Christ’s love to one another and bring healing.